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   - You can be happy

   - without changing your life

   - Professor Cassie Holmes

In her TED Talk, 'You can be happy without changing your life,' Cassie Holmes, a professor specializing in happiness and time management, shares her personal journey grappling with time poverty—a state where one feels there's never enough time to accomplish everything. Holmes narrates a particularly overwhelming day where the demands of her professional and personal life made her question her ability to maintain her pace without sacrificing joy and fulfillment. This moment of exhaustion on a train ride home led her to a critical realization about her relationship with time and sparked her interest in exploring whether having more free time equates to greater happiness.



Holmes's research reveals an intriguing relationship between the amount of discretionary time one has and their level of happiness, which she describes as an upside-down U-shaped curve. Surprisingly, both extremes—having too little or too much free time—correlate with lower happiness levels. Her findings suggest that while being time-poor creates stress, having excessive free time can lead to a lack of purpose and fulfillment, undermining one's happiness. This challenges the common assumption that more leisure time inherently brings more joy.

Holmes emphasizes that the key to happiness isn't simply having more time, but rather how one uses the time they have. By conducting a meticulous review of how she spent her own time, she discovered that even in the busiest periods of her life, she was already enjoying nearly two hours of meaningful, fulfilling activities daily. This realization helped her appreciate the value of these moments and led her to advocate for a mindful approach to time management. She suggests that achieving happiness involves protecting time for activities that align with one’s values and provide personal satisfaction.

To conclude, Holmes offers practical advice for enriching one’s use of time to enhance happiness. She encourages practices such as time tracking and reflecting on one’s activities to identify those that yield the most joy. Additionally, she discusses the psychological concept of hedonic adaptation—our tendency to grow accustomed to repeated experiences—and how to counteract it by appreciating the finite nature of special moments. By intentionally engaging in and valuing everyday activities, Holmes argues, we can achieve a deeper, more sustained form of happiness without necessitating dramatic changes to our lives.

Reflect on the following questions
  1. Self-Assessment of Time Poverty: Reflect on your own life and experiences. Do you often feel 'time poor'? What specific aspects of your daily routine contribute to this feeling?
  2. Identifying High-Quality Time: Think about the last week. Can you identify specific times when you felt particularly happy or fulfilled? What were you doing during these times, and why do you think these moments stood out?
  3. Balancing Time: Based on Holmes's research that too much or too little discretionary time can affect happiness, how would you ideally redistribute your time to reach the 'sweet spot' of happiness?
  4. Mindfulness and Time Use: How might increasing mindfulness during daily activities change your perception of time and its adequacy? What are some specific strategies you could use to become more mindful during routine tasks?
  5. Impact of Hedonic Adaptation: Have you noticed the effects of hedonic adaptation in your life, particularly in how you experience repeated activities or interactions? How can you counteract this to maintain or increase your appreciation and enjoyment?
  6. Practical Application of Time Tracking: How could you practically implement time tracking in your own life? What tools or methods would you use, and what do you hope to learn from this exercise?
  7. Reflecting on Finite Moments: Consider a routine but meaningful activity or relationship in your life. If you were to count the number of times you might realistically continue this activity or maintain this relationship as it currently exists, how might this awareness change your approach to these moments?
Reflect, journal and discuss.

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Song - Clocks - Coldplay



Final Prayer

Gracious God, as we navigate the swift currents of time, grant us the wisdom to cherish each moment and the understanding to use our hours wisely. Help us find joy in the ordinary, appreciate the fleeting nature of our days, and cultivate a balance that nourishes our spirits and enhances our happiness. Teach us to be mindful of the present, aware of the past, and hopeful for the future, trusting in Your guidance to make our time rich with love and purpose. Amen.



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24 April 2024

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